No matter what - you have to remind yourself - that no matter what, you love your cat more than anything in the world. Broken vase? That's fine. Ripped curtains? Not mad at all, it's completely fine. Dragged my sandwich under the bed and ate half of it? I wasn't even planning on eating that. No matter what.
Cats being chaotic is something that we signed up for when we adopted one, and there's no escaping it. Cats simply are chaos. They're weirdos, and they do strange things, but who isn't? Honestly, we can all probably learn from them and at least accept our own chaos in the most chill way possible.